The fact is that hes given up on trying to make things work. I feel like if I ask for his password to check his Facebook he will immediately know what I want to look for and delete any evidence if there even is any. Dont know if that makes a difference but Ive searched high and low. and past years had found 3 speptert phones see i catch him but of cousre kills the issue when i need straigh answers he wont leave the kids he tells me to leave well no way well lastweek or so an old girl when my kids wre 2 found him in facebook and she sent him a messsage and stupid him ofcouser he just leave so much eveidence like he emails stuff doesnt know how to shut off the notifications on face book and 2 weeks ago he lied taht his cousin gave him a cell to take over okay lol how did she change it to your name okay lol well and 3 years ago he a a child hold freind that i think the were getting close cause of couse she had a better censahumor then me. Once hes gone, youll be free to cry and explore your anger and sadness as much as you want. My husband & I have been married a year & dated 5yrs, within the past couple of yrs we went through our ups & downs! And, if he didnt have a sexual relationship, you feel cheated that your best friend, your husband, your groom would even dare spend time with another woman while you slept in your hotel room especially on your honeymoon. Im sure you must feel horribly confused! Then little by little he began weaving his was into my life, we became very emotionally close! Trying to sweep it under the rug like it never happened. I love him with all of my heart and I know he loves me and we have such an amazing family. He was in another state, working and came home on the weekends. He didnt make me feel attractive and was just pushing me out of his life. When you find out a husband or partner has been cheating with another woman, many wives feel embarrassed and want to hide this information. I eventually got over the hurt and devostation of his cheating and found our marriage was so much better than it has ever been. Ive done itbut it goes against my God given instincts.. "I excruciatingly suffered." And he is dismissive lately of me, and impatient. He seemed really nervous about it. whiteflag said: My husband gave me an STD, he wont admit that he cheated and tries to get me to believe that maybe I had it for yrs (we been married 6) and Im just seeing the signs. There will be calls, text messages, emails other chats like whats app and etc. Its sickening. I didnt see the big deal. He tells here is sorry and to please not tell me. be abusive towards you? Tell me he loved me. Dump his ass. I see the way he looks at me (which is awesome), and I know I take his breath away. We had almost no sex life, and when we did have sex he couldnt have an orgasm 2. Just try to see the funny side. We are now on the process of getting a divorce. 6 years ago I caught my husband talking to another woman on the cell phone. I mean he has telling me stories that they went out with marines, or did that or third, but nothing about meeting or becoming friends with a female. I found he is on hook up sites. Only show this user. Accept it as a positive rather than a negative. I have and is still married to a man for 19 years. you were right in your approach of not asking him directly, this could bring to the end of your relationship, no joke. The way you apporach a man about it is not accusing, however actually asking him why? He is the only one I have ever been with. we have one child together i have two before him and now we have another on the way. Below are marriage counselor Gary Neumans signs that a husband is having an affair. I have been cheating on my husband for 3 years. They are always my work colleagues and are always independently minded, intelligent and highly educated women with a penchant for fashion, as is my wife, and two of them (who also knew each other) after admitting the affair to her became my wifes friends too, along with their husbands. There are a lot of financial issues as well that could be keeping him here I think thats the only glue. The study involved 506 men and 412 women who reported being in monogamous sexual relationships lasting from three months to 43 years. And I want the shiny red shoes now, that feel a little uncomfortable & a bit too brightbut Im going to wear them because they make me smile & laugh!! Overall I feel like this mancation will increase your self esteem and give you a since of having control in this out of control relationship with no intimacy or emotional connection. He's not going to apologize. Most men say they wouldn't have an affair. He has told me he cares about her because she gets into trouble (she is a real gem married, has a coworker boyfriend and has been through six men at work already). He came back and I thought everything was fine. A good open point of view helps to evaluate the thoughts and feelings of uncertainty in our own minds as women. > but anyway we did manage to survive all the tough times of our marriage. This is where men and women differ, her idea of dealing with it is not the same as a mans idea, hence escorts etc! Im hurt like no other knowing my love of my life has done this to me. The messages were more or less saying what they wanted to do to each other and in his he had said if she wasnt married he would leave me tomorrow cos he loved her. And like it was said, pay attention to body language. I love my Husband so I too dont know what to do. been married for 7years, 1year ago i find out that my husband been cheated on me coz i found out picture of the girl of his bedroom and vedio of the girl taking shower to his own bathroom that time i was 9 months pregnant to my 2ndchild and i was on my own country and he was on overseas work, and he tell it wasnt his girl it was his friend i dont believe because he got all the pictures and video to his hardisc he just keep telling me that he did not cheat on me before that why i was thinking that he cheated on me because he change a lot, he became more angry, he tried to avoid an conversetion to me.. and saying we need to save money bla bla bla.. but he never been like that before.but i want to save my mirrage but i dont know coz sexually we never been making love for 1 and 1/2 year now.. i just dont know what to do, one more he spent more time in the computer than to us, My husband of 4 years said to me yesterday out of the blue that im boring in bed im like an old woman and that i pushed him to other women then quickly changed his answer to your gonna push me toi asked him how can we be intimate if i go to bed EVERY night alone. Why would he need to message/call him if they are sharing a room together? (I regretted trying to overdose on pills and called poison control for help.). I wanna break this relation but i am thinking about the kid. And then Nov 21st, 2013 hit. Im done ranting Im not sure how much more I can take we have 4 sons married 27 years. They always do. My heart aches and all I have to show are tears. (2) That bs story about not knowing they had sex, but he remembers that they made out. I dont know why you need the bread when you have all the crumbs. I have been married for 2 years. Janine Driver of the Body Language Institute shares four fascinating ways to tell if a husband is cheating on his wife and lying about it. Currently I was told that my wife went up to the super market to go shopping. Then I see them both girls who has been messaging with him on facebook. Some apps track location, some keep track of calls and texts, and so on. Its unacceptable for him to disrespect you and your children with this. I never knew he was a liar until after I married him. 1time I called him after giving him time to get there he claimed hed been shopping but didnt buy anything. If any of this sounds familiar, your answer may lie within. Or when he is drinking or really high? No guy will work for sex in the way you are describing (unless it was really, REALLY great sex, and/or the guy is so horrible he doesnt think he could get any, anywhere else, and even than, for a year like that, it would have to be something that keeps on getting better, or even great sex will get old). What do you love more, your husband or your pills? We may earn a small commission on purchases made through our links. People might seek out high-risk situations to help them become aroused, or they might choose to have sex with a partner outside of their regular relationship because they feel they have an out if the encounter doesnt go well they dont have to see them again.. He left me briefly last November b/c he said we fought to much and he needed a break. Everytime I ask him he puts the blame on me saying if Im accusing him of cheating then I must be cheating. I look great for my age and look much younger than most 55 year old women. I need to tell you something honey that is of utmost importance. When i got back i felt something was wrong, like he had been cheating. My wife thinks i am cheating but i have not. Come to find out this lady had left her husband a few yrs ago for another man at the plant and he works the opposite shift as them. If someone is asking you if you are cheating, believe me, the response they want is, of course not, I would never do that to you. He was only looking for attention and compliments. Everyone could me she was trouble. And I mean everything a person needs. I do believe that the people my husband spent time with promoted cheating as though it was part of their manhood. Why would someone tell me this. Its important to learn the reasons men cheat, because that knowledge will help you determine if you can save your marriage. But he makes me coffee and has it ready every morning, leaves me notes on the bathroom mirror and makes sure all of my needs are met. I would out when one night he came and took the keys to his parents house, because they were on vacation abroad. Are you waiting for this piece of garbage to do the right about face and love you? I discovered it because I was the one paying the cell phone bill and it had been a bit high during that time. I need some advice asap on what to do or how to go about confronting him again. We dont immediately jump into bed with people were attracted to, so your fiances claims that he would never cheat arent necessarily a lie right now. I realized they were always together and ate lunch together which most of the time I did also. He might get so caught up in the moment that the truth slips right out of him. I married someone that I didnt really know or understand. I dont know your husband at all, but I know men sometimes pull away when they feel stressed or unable to care for their families. However I cannot guess what is goign through my partners head. I might fail everyone of your tests and I have never cheated. Perhaps the main reason behind my husband thinks he does nothing wrong is the need to defend himself. I dont know what to do , im a stay at home mom of 3 young children, I need to make the right decision for me and for them. 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